Poetry Month – April 25, 2022

While I rely on the security of finding my blue dot on the screen, I still love the mysteries of paper maps and how they mark time, revealing gaps in where we’ve been and where we are going. 

The Mapmaker

Once upon a time a mapmaker told me,
“When I make a map, I visit certain places
to make sure they are there.”
I am the map reader in my dad’s car.
I unfold the southern New England states
Until it covers me like a blanket
Then I refold it so I can only see Connecticut and Rhode Island
And only the coast line.
I am looking for my place on the map
I drag my finger along I-95 through Connecticut
Then turn onto Route 2 and then Route 1
When my index finger crosses the Pawcatuck River
Into Rhode Island, I peer at the edge of land
By the Atlantic ocean.
Looking for my little town
My dot on the map.
It isn’t there
No towns
Are there.
No Watch Hill
No Misquamicut
No Shelter Harbor
Especially not my dot
Weekapaug.
As the car gets nearer to the water
I wonder if it has disappeared during the winter.
Dink-Dink Dink-Dink
Dad flicks on the blinker at Dunn’s Corner
(Also not on the map)
Now we’re headed straight at the ocean
(It’s on the map)
At my not-there dot
I sit up tall in my seat.
Will we fall into the ocean?
We are coasting along the marsh pond road
By the jetty of rocks
Past the sand dunes
Then I see it.
Lamb’s store
The Bait & Tackle shop
The Post Office
It’s all there
My dot
But the mapmaker hasn’t been here yet.

©Lindsey Lane

Poetry Month – April 24, 2022

One of the many exercises I give my students is the juxtaposition of an emotion and an object: Regret in terms of a shiny black shoe; Anger in terms of a pink blouse. It’s a way to get at the emotion of a scene without being too on the nose. Telling it slant. I think the following is the phrase I pulled from random pieces of paper I passed around. Yes, the teacher does the exercises, too.

LOVE IN TERMS OF A HANDKERCHIEF

My father reaches into his pocket and hands me his white handkerchief. It is neatly folded, half, then half again, then one more time so it is a 3×3 square. He hasn’t used it. Putting a handkerchief in his pocket was part of how he got dressed in the morning, one of the final things he put in his pocket before he went out the door.

I wonder if his mother or father told him to do it. “Bill you should always have a handkerchief with you.” “Bill, don’t wipe your nose on your sleeve.” “Bill, sniffing your nose like that is so impolite. Use. Your. Handkerchief.” Perhaps it was a habit born out of necessity. No Kleenex. Instead, people had cotton squares, folded in the man’s pocket or tucked in a woman’s sleeve.

He gave me the handkerchief because I was crying. I don’t remember why I was crying at that particular moment.  What I do remember was the instant I started crying, my father reached in his pocket and handed me his neatly folded handkerchief. I sobbed into the soft white square. Tears. Snot. Mascara. When I handed it back to him, he looked at it like, “Ick.” I think I giggled at the preposterousness of my father carrying around a snot-smeared handkerchief. Then life went on. We didn’t talk much about what caused the upset. It was over. It was in the rearview mirror. He wasn’t phobic about feelings. He came girded with the handkerchief and he quietly let me dissolve into it. But he wasn’t keen on parsing out the beginning middle or end of an upset.

I gripped one of his handkerchiefs at his funeral. When we divided up his things, I took the small stack of handkerchiefs from the top drawer of his bureau and put it in mine. In case someone needs that soft white square.

©Lindsey Lane

Poetry Month – April 23, 2022

TIME CHANGE

You woke at three
In the new time
I slept till six in the old
We had coffee at seven
Ate just bought eggs
and talked until eight or so about
things we were going to do today.
Then we dressed in semi-fresh clothes
And began slipping between time zones
All day long
Early for one thing
Late for another
Laughing at the whoops of it
Snickering at stealing time
Wondering how this fragile quotient holds us together
It’s so made up
So easily snipped and curled
Like ribbons
This small gift of an hour.

©Lindsey Lane

Poetry Month – April 22, 2022

As a New England girl, reading the weather is essential to survival.

MOM

She was my sun.
I watched her from my crib
a blanket on the floor
my highchair perch
best of all, from her lap.
The closer to her, the warmer I was.
But when her hazel green eyes turned brown and dull
and her sighs sounded a storm rolling in
I hid in my closet
listening for the quiet,
waiting for the skies to clear.
I read every  pressure change in her skin.
She was my barometer
My indicator of fair skies.
I trailed her,
the last of her four children,
toddling
wobbling
chanting like a drunken sailor
up
up
up
pick me up.

©Lindsey Lane

 

Poetry Month – April 21, 2022

Sometimes, only through the lens of time, can you realize that you might have had your priorities in the wrong order…

ANNIVERSARY

Today
I was married
Fill-in-the-blank years ago

It was cloudy
Portending rain
Fill-in-the-blank years ago

I was all worry and upset
We didn’t order a tent
The guests will get wet
The day will be ruined

Five years later
It was over

I woke up this morning
And listened to the
thwack and splash of rain
on all the leaves.
The birds were having a fine time
Squawk
Chirrup
Coo
No tent.

©Lindsey lane